70. Anxiety, C-PTSD, & Codependency

In this episode, we explore how to express a boundary without feeling controlling, rude, or as though you’re being “too much.” In Part Two of The Loudest Boundaries Are Unspoken, we chat about managing your attention as a form of boundary—and how people can learn what you are and ...  Show more

In this episode, we explore the boundaries people can FEEL—the kind that indirectly let people know how to treat you without you having to bark instructions at them. This conversation is especially for the girl who already knows when someone has made her uncomfortable but feels s ...  Show more

On this episode, I dive deeper into trauma and how it links to the anxiety you are currently experiencing. I talk about the impact of high emotional events on our minds and bodies. I also answer the question: why do we keep reliving the past? An episode everyone needs to hear. ...

Distinguished therapists Tabatha Bird Weaver and Elizabeth Pace talk about CPTSD. We'll cover trauma, co-dependency, addiction, attachment issues, and what you can do about them. 

On this episode, I talk about the dependent personality. Those with this personality trait rely on external means to sooth, numb, and distract themselves from that internal pain. Then what happens when those means break? For me, I was sent into chaos. Anxiety spiked and I was ...

In the second episode of The Codependency Series, Vanessa discusses various codependent tendencies and behaviors. She provides a laundry list of codependent tendencies, explains how these behaviors stem from a fear of losing attachment and a lack of trust in oneself and others, a ...  Show more