Some people would rather hurt you than be vulnerable with you

Some people would rather hurt you than be vul...

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When its impossible to get away from all the toxic behavior

Some relationships end but continue leaving destruction in their wake. Some don't end and you suffer through the daily drip-feeding of emotionally abusive behaviors until you lose your sanity. When there's no way away from all the toxicity, what can you do? 

Dont call them what they really are, it will work against you

Calling a duck a duck makes sense. But this logic works against you in the emotionally abusive relationship. Calling out an abusive person for who they are might just turn the whole thing around on you. 

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