#048: Why You Can’t Just “Get Over It” with Hilary Jacobs Hendel

#048: Why You Can’t Just “Get Over It” with H...

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#499: Codependency is Keeping You Small

In this episode I go straight at the truth most of us avoid: if you don’t decide who you are, someone else will decide for you. I unpack how people pleasing, codependency, and the fear of saying no quietly steal your dreams, your health, and your self respect, and how every exter ...  Show more

#498: Ditch The Narcissist & Stop Entertaining BS

In this episode I speak directly to anyone stuck in a manipulative or emotionally abusive relationship and wondering why leaving feels so impossible. I unpack how empathy, hope, and old attachment wounds can keep you bonded to chaos, and why compassion without boundaries turns in ...  Show more

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