Episode 513: Will Your Ex Leave You Again?

How do you make an avoidant feel so safe that they finally let you in and don't pull away?In this episode, I reveal the 3 phrases that create the emotional safety an avoidant needs to stay connected and move a relationship forward.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR And ...  Show more

If your avoidant ex says they want to be friends after the break up, what does that mean? Do they still have feelings for you or are they trying to make the break up easier?In this video I explain why avoidants offer friendship, what’s happening emotionally beneath the surface an ...  Show more

Erika writes: “What are your thoughts on the law of attraction and its role in getting an ex back? I've read that some people have used it to get their exes back with great success. However, it sounds like this method involves giving them all the power. Won't this have the opposi ...  Show more

The question is does the attraction return after an avoidant ex partner leaves the relationship. And how long does it take for that attraction to return if it does.

Remember, it’s also important to take into consideration of what the relationship was like and why it e ...

As you know I'm not a big advocate for getting back together with exes. However, it does happen- BUT in this episode I lay out the 5 things you MUST consider before making the decision to get back together with them. By considering these 5 things you're much less likely to make t ...  Show more

In this episode, we're exploring the common and very human experience of hoping an ex will come back after a break-up, saying they've changed their mind and want to reconcile.

Whether you were left unexpectedly or the break-up was a long time coming, the ho ...