Season 2 Episode 4: Are we asking too much of Tinder?

Season 2 Episode 4: Are we asking too much of...

Yue Xu and Julie KrafchickYue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Up next

What's More Important Than Being Chosen: What We Learned The Hard Way (So You Don't Have To)

Why do we place so much weight on being chosen and what does it actually get us? In this episode, we dig into how we’ve confused attention with real investment and chased validation instead of asking whether we felt genuinely valued. We reflect on the subtle ways performative dat ...  Show more

 . 20min 26sec
S22E11: Rewiring Your Attachment Style w/ Thais Gibson

We all know our attachment styles greatly impact how we show up in dating and relationships, but what do we do if we have anxious or avoidant tendencies? We’re joined by attachment expert Thais Gibson, who shares how we can rewire our brains and nervous system to feel more secure ...  Show more

 . 1h 7min

Recommended Episodes

Battle of the Tinder Dates (5/28/25)
Brooke and Jeffrey

Tinder is fun, but the dates don’t always work out, and can sometimes be really… really bad. Two of our listeners battle HEAD-to-HEAD to see who has the most tragic dating life in our segment, Battle of the Tinder Dates!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 

 . 7min 32sec
Battle of the Tinder Dates (7/23/25)
Brooke and Jeffrey

Tinder is fun, but the dates don’t always work out, and can sometimes be really… really bad. Two of our listeners battle HEAD-to-HEAD to see who has the most tragic dating life in our segment, Battle of the Tinder Dates!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 

 . 7min 32sec
Battle of the Tinder Dates (6/25/25)
Brooke and Jeffrey

Tinder is fun, but the dates don’t always work out, and can sometimes be really… really bad. Two of our listeners battle HEAD-to-HEAD to see who has the most tragic dating life in our segment, Battle of the Tinder Dates!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 

 . 7min 28sec
Battle of the Tinder Dates (4/16/25)
Brooke and Jeffrey

Tinder is fun, but the dates don’t always work out, and can sometimes be really… really bad. Two of our listeners battle HEAD-to-HEAD to see who has the most tragic dating life!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 

 . 6min 53sec