Destroy The Nice Guy & Become The “Bad Boy”

A lot of your frustration with women doesn’t come from saying the wrong thing. It comes from subtle neediness that kills attraction before anything can grow. In this episode, you’ll learn how neediness shows up in your texting, your energy, and your behavior, why women feel it in ...  Show more

If you can start a conversation but you never know how to tell when she’s actually feeling it, you end up guessing, overthinking, and either forcing it or playing it too safe. You’ll learn the exact cues that show attraction is turning on and the simple moves that keep momentum g ...  Show more

Why do “nice guys” get friend-zoned while jerks get the girl? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett smashes the “Nice Guy” myth, settles the debate over who should pay on a first date, and shares the time he flew cross-country to surprise a woman he’d never met—with an un ...  Show more

Maybe you’ve been in Jack’s shoes. He goes on a few dates, and everything seems fine. Then—bam! She says, “I’m just not feeling a connection.” Frustrating? Absolutely. “It happens a lot, and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong,” Jack, a 33-year-old sales rep., admits to dating coac ...  Show more

As a single man, you likely battle fear from time to time—and not just on the dating scene.

Maybe you’re afraid to be emotionally vulnerable with people because you’ve been told it’s a sign of weakness.

Perhaps you get angry—at women, the world, yourself—and ...  Show more

It’s time to “Ask the Dating Coach!” as Connell Barrett takes your questions. If you struggle with what to say on dates, Connell shares three essential flirting moves to help you spark romantic connections. (Farewell, Friend Zone!) He also reveals why women prefer nice guys over ...  Show more