Why Being a Virgin Isn’t a BFD

Two years ago, I met Ann at one of my Retreats. She stood up in tears and told me something I’ll never forget:“I feel like I’m not worthy.”Life had given her plenty of reasons to believe it. She had spent years feeling unseen, making herself smaller, and slowly losing touch with ...  Show more

Sex can bring up some of the biggest questions in dating: When is the right time to sleep with someone? Should you talk about what it means beforehand? And what if you have sex and they suddenly pull away?If you've ever worried that sleeping with someone too soon could make them ...  Show more

What’s the deal with virginity auctions? Why is virginity associated with both sacredness and stigma, especially for women? Is virginity a valueless construct rather than an actual physical state?

Send a textEp. 146 - Enjoy this replay! Many Christian women wonder if being a virgin on their wedding night will be awkward. Saving sex for marriage sounds great, but is it really that great? OR is it mostly super awkward and weird? Is saving sex for marriage actually worth it? ...  Show more

When you think of enjoyable sex what do you think of? Is it gentle and slow or aggressive and fast? In this episode, we talk about the concept of virginity, what sex means to us, and the things to keep in mind before having sex. Need advice? Come talk to us every Sunday at 6 PM P ...  Show more

This is the episode where I say out loud what I’ve been living: I don’t even sleep with people anymore, because it never feels genuine. We’re taught as women that being chosen is the ultimate goal but what happens when men don’t even respect the women they choose? From baggy clot ...  Show more