How to Be Patient in an Impatient World

Nearly every culture around the world encourages sacrifice today for a better tomorrow. So why is delayed gratification so hard? 

There's a lot to like about stoicism, but it falls short in some key areas for me. Here's my take on it and the other influences on my personal philosophy. 

In today’s world, we expect everything in an instant, including accomplishing our New Year’s resolutions. We’re so used to immediate gratification that practicing patience can feel uneasy. Don’t be afraid to let things unfold in their own time. Learn more about your ad choices. V ...  Show more

It's good to be patient and understanding. But sometimes we are so patient and understanding that we never get what we want. Here is an argument to stop being patient and understanding and start standing up for what your heart really wants and deserves. 

Despite our awareness of how worrying can make us feel, it's often challenging to stop worrying about the people we care about, our careers, our children, and what's to come. What's important to remember is that worrying has never actually solved any problems; instead, it drains ...  Show more

In our fast-paced world, it's very easy to internalize the hyper speed frenzy all around us. But this frantic pace is destroying our mental health, our relationships, and our lives. We may feel like we're getting more done, but in truth that chaos comes at a price we ...