136. Chasing + Pre-mature Commitment With Men

In this episode, we chat: How to stay CLEAR AND FIRM on what you know, want, and believe when someone else's pressure or reactions challenge your boundaries, values and opinions. What you'll learn in this episode: Why a friendly "come onnn" after you've already said no is worth p ...  Show more

In this episode, we chat: The fine line between someone loving you and someone loving who they ARE and who they BECOME around you. What you'll learn in this episode: Why someone can genuinely enjoy being around you—and still be more attached to how they feel with you than to who ...  Show more

Dating can feel SO HARD   And so many people I coach get in the dating scene, only to get out of it quickly    And you say things like: “I’m just gonna focus on me”  “I don’t have time to date”   What I hear is: Dating is painful. It drains my energy…I don’t want to get hurt agai ...  Show more

In this episode, I’m breaking down the difference between healthy pursuit and unhealthy chasing in dating, because yes, there’s a big difference. I share personal stories of times I chased and was chased, plus the subtle signs someone’s just not that into you (and what to do when ...  Show more

In this episode I talk about why people are afraid of intimacy and commitment – and I do it for both sides of the relationship: the fearers and the chasers. So this is for anyone who was in a happy in a relationship and then their partner started distancing as soon as things got ...  Show more

In this episode, I talk about how to avoid having relationship problems with someone you're not in a relationship with. I talk about what happens when you've done the inner work and you're eagerly dating - and the resulting difference between what you think you want vs. what y ...