Up next

Emotional Availability

Emotional availability isn’t about feeling emotions loudly or perfectly — it’s about presence, regulation, and the ability to hold space without shutting down or exploding. Our capacity shifts based on stress, attachment history, neurodivergence, and what’s happening in our windo ...  Show more

If I Have To Ask, It Doesn't Count

Why does it feel so disappointing to ask for what you want? In this episode, we unpack the hidden belief that “if I have to ask, it doesn’t count” — and how that mindset turns simple needs (compliments, celebration, affection) into silent resentment. We explore the shame, fear of ...  Show more

Recommended Episodes

Episode 158: Dating with Depression – Relationships and Mental Health
Sex and Psychology Podcast

Relationships are hard. But they can be especially hard when you or a partner are dealing with depression. In this episode, we’re going to explore how mental health issues like depression can pose unique relationship challenges, but also consider practical tips and tools ...

  Show more

Do You Feel You’re Giving Too Much in Relationships? | Actions Don't Match his Words - BONUS EPISODE
The Coffee Breakup

In this weeks episode we are responding to a fans question that they submitted.  

What does it mean if someone's words do not match their actions?   Tune in now to find out!




You can watch this episode on Patreon ...

  Show more

Ep. 218 - Tips for finding happiness after a breakup during the holiday season
How to Get Over Your Ex

In this episode we explore transforming post-breakup holiday blues into a joyful experience. Breakup Coach Dorothy challenges preconceptions, sharing personal insights from fasting and handling misconceptions around miscarriage. She encourages listeners to see breakup holidays ...

  Show more

#126: 5 Hard (But Liberating) Truths About Break-Ups
On Attachment

In today's episode, we're talking all about break-ups. Break-ups are one of the most challenging and sometimes destabilising emotional experiences we can go through, and there is so much conflicting advice and information on how best to approach the ending of a relat ...

  Show more