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Is it possible to be with one person for life and still feel something deep and warm between you? I'm sharing stories and wisdom from a 43‑year warm, loving marriage. Are you stressed by wanting things in your relationship to be equal and fair? What if doing more at home or in th ...  Show more

Sharing our "come to Jesus" difficult discussion this week. On: incompatability that surfaces while married, negotiating differences and wants, and how not martyring yourself and nurturing your individuality is key to staying connected. Upcoming: Both Feet In, my signature relati ...  Show more

Are you in a long distance relationship, or considering one? If so, then today’s episode is for you. I’m giving you my honest opinion on “LDRs,” asking you some tough questions, and sharing my 4 unbreakable rules to follow if you want to make sure your relationship works – and is ...  Show more

Break up or stay together? Who hasn't wondered the same, during a seriously difficult time in their relationship? Or, entertained an even bigger question: Should you try to save a relationship? How hard should you work? Especially a relationship that has been feeling really hard ...  Show more

So often in relationships we are quick to focus our unhappiness on our partner. It's their fault things don't get better, right? It's way too easy to blame others & not look at ourselves. This episode takes a look at what YOU can do, whether or not your partner is interested i ...

Was that just a nasty fight? Or a sign that your relationship is failing?  As a longtime marriage counselor, I know that it can be hard to spot the difference. Some forms of conflict are healthy and even beneficial for relationships, while others are a signal that your emotional ...  Show more