"I Love Them, But I'm Not in Love With Them"

With 215 episodes of Reimagining Love under her belt, Dr. Alexandra is announcing a pause of the podcast. In this episode, she shares why she made this decision, what’s happening in this transition (which is NOT an ending!), and the invaluable lessons she’s learned from you, the ...  Show more

This solo episode is going to explore a fear that many of us carry inside our intimate relationships but rarely say out loud: the fear of settling. What is it? Where does it come from? And most importantly, what does it cost us? Dr. Alexandra will offer you a reframe that is both ...  Show more

In this episode, I talk about the difference between being loved and feeling loved and when you need to say "just because you love me doesn't mean I feel loved." I talk about your love language vs. theirs.

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This week, we're exploring the difference between loving someone and liking someone. We're specifically discussing how it is we can love someone but also not like being around them very much, and if one feeling is more important than the other. We'll also be talking about how kno ...  Show more

How often do you truly feel loved? Do you have many moments where you do or are they rare relics? In this episode, we take a look at times we found ourselves feeling loved in the purest way possible, why we sometimes have a hard time accepting love, and how we often question why ...  Show more

In this episode, I address questions like:

“Did I fall out love with my partner?”

“What if I feel love toward my partner, but don’t feel IN LOVE with my partner?”

“What if we fall out of love ...