Episode 539: What Happens When You Stop Chasi...

If your ex hasn't reached out, you might be accidentally making it easier for them to stay silent.In this episode, I explain the mistakes that can stop an ex from contacting you - even when they miss you, think about you or have thought about reaching out.Get coaching!Download Si ...  Show more

Want to make your avoidant ex start worrying and become anxious about losing you? In this episode, I'll give you specific tricks, along with real client examples, designed to take away the certainty that you'll always be there waiting for them.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: ...  Show more

The question is does the attraction return after an avoidant ex partner leaves the relationship. And how long does it take for that attraction to return if it does.

Remember, it’s also important to take into consideration of what the relationship was like and why it e ...

In this episode, John answers a listener's question after they've emailed him for advice about their current relationship. He dives into avoidant attachment styles, and gives advice on how to know if you're attachment style is to blame for feeling "suffocated" in the relationship ...  Show more

Why do avoidant men run from intimacy, and how can you get them to bond without chasing? In this powerful conversation, Adam Lane Smith breaks down the core fears driving avoidant attachment styles and shares actionable tips to flip the script — so he starts chasing y ...

Today we dive into the mind of an avoidant- 

- what makes them shut down? 

- what are the thinking when they shut down? 

- what are the feeling when they have the urge to run away or shut down? 

- why do they walk away? 

And what you and your part ...