Why You’re Attracted to People Who Don’t Want...

I’ve been making videos for nearly 20 years. If you’ve been here that whole time, thank you. But there’s a silent danger in doing this…It can't be the only thing you do to make progress in your love life.At some point, constant content consumption without action becomes a form of ...  Show more

Dating apps can make it feel like we’re competing with endless options… while somehow no one is actually trying.In this episode, Matthew explores the frustrating reality of modern dating—why people seem flaky, why effort feels one-sided, and how dating apps can distort your perce ...  Show more

Why do we have such a hard time stepping towards love and/or surrendering into it? Why do we sabotage relationships with people who actually want to love us? In this episode, I welcome back one of your favourites, Dr. Alexandra Solomon. She is an absolute relationship wizard and ...  Show more

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How do people fall in love? And maybe just as importantly, how do people fall out of love? Well, it's not magic. But there is a secret t ...

Most people don't realize that their frustration with people who aren't available has a lot to do with their own unavailability. In this special episode I discuss 3 questions from my audience and how to handle their relational challenges. Why might we be holding on to or daydream ...  Show more

Note: Despite the title, this conversation is equally for men and women. Listen with an open mind. This is Part 1 of 2.Today's guest is Dr. Robert Glover, author of the brilliant, often life-altering, and slightly controversial bestselling classic, No More Mr. Nice Guy. It may n ...  Show more