Stop Recreating What Was

What happens when I know better but still find myself repeating the same relationship patterns? I answer 10 questions about love, attachment, obsession, loneliness, breakups, abuse, reconciliation, and the difficult choices we make when relationships activate something deeper ins ...  Show more

What is the difference between loving someone and becoming obsessed with them? In this episode, I explore how love can slowly turn into fixation, fantasy, and emotional dependency, and why so many of us confuse chemistry with compatibility. Recording from a hotel room, I reflect ...  Show more

IN THIS EPISODE OF THE HUMAN UPGRADE you’ll learn how to recognize your own sh*t and be a better partner in relationships. 

Want a sustainable partnership? Communicate and apologize; fight without fighting; identify codependent behavior (your own); ...

Feeling burned out from constant self-improvement? In this episode, I'm sharing a practical 5-step plan to help you shift from revamping your life to fully living in and enjoying it. If you're at a place where you've built much of what you've envisioned for yourself but feel l ...

John Kim is a licensed therapist, life coach and author. He sits down with the Armchair Expert to discuss his commitment to redefining masculinity, why he created The Angry Therapist blog and his view on expired relationships. John talks about the deep communication barrier with ...  Show more

In this episode, I talk about how to stop holding yourself back by removing your limiting beliefs. I talk about the most realistic way to stop assuming anything about what you're not capable of doing in your life.

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