Stop Recreating What Was

We were handed a blueprint for what a “good life” is supposed to look like: fall in love, get married, buy the house, have kids, build a career, and stay together. But what happens when you achieve the life you were supposed to want and realize it doesn’t actually feel like yours ...  Show more

Being in love and loving someone aren’t always the same thing. Being in love can be about chemistry, longing, fantasy, desire, and the way someone makes you feel. But loving someone asks something harder: can you keep seeing who they actually are as they change? Can you stay curi ...  Show more

IN THIS EPISODE OF THE HUMAN UPGRADE you’ll learn how to recognize your own sh*t and be a better partner in relationships. 

Want a sustainable partnership? Communicate and apologize; fight without fighting; identify codependent behavior (your own); ...

Feeling burned out from constant self-improvement? In this episode, I'm sharing a practical 5-step plan to help you shift from revamping your life to fully living in and enjoying it. If you're at a place where you've built much of what you've envisioned for yourself but feel l ...

John Kim is a licensed therapist, life coach and author. He sits down with the Armchair Expert to discuss his commitment to redefining masculinity, why he created The Angry Therapist blog and his view on expired relationships. John talks about the deep communication barrier with ...  Show more

In this episode, I talk about how to stop holding yourself back by removing your limiting beliefs. I talk about the most realistic way to stop assuming anything about what you're not capable of doing in your life.

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