The ULTIMATE ADVICE Every Woman NEEDS TO HEAR...

Do you ever wonder why, no matter how “calm” or “rational” you try to be, people find a reason not to believe you? Or why so many women start doubting their own reality (thinking maybe they're actually “crazy”) when all they've really done is survive? If that lands, then this is ...  Show more

You know those times when you KNOW something is wrong, but everyone around you gaslights you into thinking it's all “in your head”? Or when a woman finally speaks up about abuse, only to be dismissed as “crazy” by her family, the police, even doctors? Homie, grab a pen: This one ...  Show more

“The difference between a broken community and a thriving one is the presence of women who are valued.” – Michelle Obama  In honor of International Women’s Day, I wanted to take the opportunity to celebrate some of the most impactful and brilliant women I’ve had the chance to in ...  Show more

THIS episode right here is the reason you shouldn’t compare yourself to others. So much of what I do at The Queen of Confidence centers around sharing the stories of confidence, the epic wins and helping other women feel empowered to do the same. Who doesn’t want to shout it from ...  Show more

THIS IS WHAT DOING THE WORK LOOKS LIKE.Ok, so I know I harp on about how incredibly important it is to do the INNER work...To make peace with your past and to create the life you desire by letting go of the beliefs that hold you back…And maybe you’ve thought “yeah, yeah Erika, bu ...  Show more

When it comes to relationships, we all think we know what we want. Somebody kind, thoughtful, funny, good-looking, or (insert your adjective of choice here!). But it’s rarely that simple. We spend a lot of time thinking about our ideal partner – but usually not enough time thinki ...  Show more