Invisibilia Takes Control

If you're a kid and a terrible thing happens, what do you do to feel safe? If you're an adult, how do you offer guidance to the kids when you can't even make sense of what's happened—and when it's your job to act as a shield to the children? Those are some of the questions that a ...  Show more

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In this week’s episode, Gareth and Kim talk about to about the role that control plays in our lives. Why do we try to control things and is it even possible? How can we feel safe when we feel things are outside our control? How can we better understand our relationship with contr ...  Show more

Beyond the Controlling Self - Part 2  - It's natural that we do what we can to ward off danger and further ourselves. While our control strategies – such as aggression, judging, planning, seeking approval, pretending – have a developmental role, they are not a recipe for happi ...

Many of us are feeling stuck right now, forced to adapt to a world that we have little control over. But if we focus too much on these uncontrollable aspects of our lives, we greatly increase our suffering. Learn why our routines and habits are so important to our wellbeing, and ...  Show more

In this episode, we talk about strategies to help you feel more in control of your life. Key Points: Ask yourself what is taking control away from you What does control mean? What does it look like? Write it down Pick the first thing in that vision Show up Key Notes: The sense of ...  Show more