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Parenthood is exhausting. When a kid asks for snack for the millionth time while you're running on little sleep and trying to make dinner, it's easy to snap. Licensed marriage and family therapist Cassidy Freitas says the key is to find refuge in what she calls "the margins." In ...  Show more

Sometimes we buy things that we later regret: a new sweater that's already falling apart, or a thrifted "vintage" vase that turns out to be a mass-produced dupe. In the moment, it's difficult to resist the temptation of making a purchase. But with a few pointed questions, you can ...  Show more

Have you ever been so frustrated about what you see in the media, or in your personal relationships, that the negativity stayed with you all day? In this episode, discover how to take things less personally and have more control over your emotions. “Instead of judging what someon ...  Show more

Whether it's someone bumping into you on the street... or your ex cheating on you, we all take things personally sometimes! But, understanding where the other person is mentally can help to understand their actions and take the pain off yourself. This week, Su & Lu share the deta ...  Show more

Send me a messageWhen we get hurt and let down by others, the pain we feel lingers on long after the emotional event took place. These traumatic moments in our lives take up a disproportionate amount of our mental space. If we have too many of these moments in our lives, their me ...  Show more

Do you analyze people's words or actions and make it about yourself? Unfortunately, people tend to harbour a lot of feelings such as resentment towards themselves when negative actions or words are said against them. It's almost natural to feel hurt based on what someone else doe ...  Show more