Creating A Safe Space & Active Listening

Some of the hardest truths about relationships are the ones we spend the most time avoiding. I’m talking about the conversations that challenge the way we think about marriage, love, resentment, breakups, and even our own intuition. I start with a controversial idea: I think marr ...  Show more

In this episode, I reflect on what I’d tell myself 10 years ago about losing everything, rebuilding, and learning that security was never really about what I owned. I also share a story about a local surfer in Costa Rica who offered to teach me after watching me struggle in the w ...  Show more

IN THIS EPISODE OF THE HUMAN UPGRADE you’ll learn how to recognize your own sh*t and be a better partner in relationships. 

Want a sustainable partnership? Communicate and apologize; fight without fighting; identify codependent behavior (your own); ...

John is an author and guide for both men and women in the realms of life purpose, relational communication, sexual intimacy, and embodiment. In this episode, he shares and discusses the pillars of what creates a healthy, fulfilling, and long-lasting relationship.

In this episode, licensed therapist Kier Gaines explores healthy communication and management of expectations in romantic relationships. He offers insights into how therapy can transform the way men communicate, not just through talking but also through understanding and empathy. ...  Show more

Part 2 of Kessonga’s week on relationships. He explains how mindful communication helps us actively speak and listen to our loved ones, so everyone feels heard and understood. Kessonga holds a Masters degree in Social Work, and is a Certified Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction Te ...  Show more