Not Perfect, Better

You thought you’d feel relieved by now.The hard part is over.The decision was made.That chapter is closed.So why doesn’t it feel lighter?Why don’t endings always feel like endings?Why can the right choice still feel heavy?And what happens when the feeling you expected just never ...  Show more

Your chest tightens before the phone rings. Your stomach drops when you walk into that room. Before your mind explains it away, your body already knows which conversations aren’t safe and which relationships quietly drain you.In this episode, we talk about why we ignore those sig ...  Show more

Have you ever considered why the pursuit of perfection often leads to anything but perfection? Are you ready to uncover the surprising truth behind the myth of perfection and how striving for it can actually hinder your growth and happiness? In this episode, Brendon dives deep in ...  Show more

Many people suffer from "perfectionism" nowadays. We aren't satisfied with what we do because we expect more from ourselves. The problem with that is our lack of perfection becomes an excuse for not finishing our goals. In this episode I talk about how the important ...

A common driver for addiction is perfectionism. When we feel like we don’t have control over our own life and can’t achieve perfection, we seek for something that we can control (in a sex addict’s life, this is lust). When perfectionism drives us, we can develop a defeatist menta ...  Show more

Do you want to be perfect? Do you get angry when life is not perfect? Spotlight looks at people who try to make everything perfect.