#44: 5 Reasons You Might Struggle to Apologis...

In today's Ask Steph episode, I'm giving advice to a listener who is feeling a lot of shame and self-blame for their role in the breakdown of a relationship, which they've come to recognise after working on themselves post-break-up. I share some thoughts on why shame and blame ca ...  Show more

So many people will know the frustration of wanting to work on your relationship and being met with resistance, shutdown, or disengagement from a partner. When your sincere attempts at getting through and finding a path forward aren't landing, it's easy to feel hopeless—and confu ...  Show more

"I'm sorry" - 2 little words that can not only be challenging for some partners to say, but also can mean MANY different things. 

So in today's episode we cover:

Several specific ...

After a borderline episode or split, apologizing can be a big part of relational repair and recovery. Why is it so difficult to do this effectively? Shame. Listen in today to see how shame impacts apologies and what you can begin to do about it. Fall Group Sign-Ups Now Open! Clic ...  Show more

Why is it so hard to say 'I'm sorry?' In the final episode of our Healing 2.0 series, we talk with psychologist Tyler Okimoto about the mental barriers that keep us from admitting when we've done something wron ...

Why is it so hard to say 'I'm sorry?' In part two of our series on forgiveness and apologies, we talk with psychologist Tyler Okimoto about the mental barriers that keep us from admitting when we've done someth ...