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Pre-order my book, The Secure SelfIn today's episode, we're talking about self-abandonment and what it really takes to shift away from these well-worn patterns into a more secure version of ourselves that is grounded in self-worth. We discuss why self-abandonment feels so natural ...  عرض المزيد

In today's Ask Steph episode, I'm giving advice to a listener who is feeling a lot of shame and self-blame for their role in the breakdown of a relationship, which they've come to recognise after working on themselves post-break-up. I share some thoughts on why shame and blame ca ...  عرض المزيد

In this episode, I share 5 ways in how you can best support your avoidant partner. We go deep into understanding their attachment traumas, the result of these traumas, and how other attachment types (especially anxious styles) can live more harmoniously with their avoidant partne ...  عرض المزيد

When you're in a relationship shaped by attachment insecurities, the questions are complex, urgent, and deeply personal. 

In this episode of Decoding Attachment, host Annalisa Bahadur tackles your real-world dilemmas with clarity and compassion, offering acti ...

You long for more emotional intimacy in your relationship but your partner avoids deeper conversations?

This is where we talk about what you can do to support your partner feeling safe!

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Today we dive into the mind of an avoidant- 

- what makes them shut down? 

- what are the thinking when they shut down? 

- what are the feeling when they have the urge to run away or shut down? 

- why do they walk away? 

And what you and your part ...