#61: What to Do When You're Feeling Stuck in ...

In this Ask Steph episode, I share my perspective on the phrase “if they wanted to, they would” — and why it’s sometimes helpful, but often oversimplified.I talk about the difference between basic effort and genuine capacity, and why assuming someone’s behaviour always reflects a ...  Show more

Few decisions feel as emotionally loaded as deciding whether to keep trying in a relationship or to walk away. There is no universal right answer — and for many people, especially those with anxious attachment, this question can feel endlessly destabilising.In this episode, I sha ...  Show more

Do you get attached too quickly in relationships or become intimate before you're ready? Or even worse, have you ever ended up in a hazy three-year relationship with the first person who gave you attention, or even *shudders* someone ...

Attachment is a key term and principle for relationships and refers to the way in which you bond and connect with your partner. The theory of Attachment Style has become much more popular in recent years from its conception by John Bowlby in 1969. Though many are fam ...

J'ai envie que toutes mes copines soient dans des bêtes de relations amoureuses, vous êtes mes copines et je veux le meilleur pour vous : bienvenue.

Jusqu'à ma relation actuelle, j'avais une image biaisée des relations amoureuses : compliquées, qui font mal. Ou en tout c ...

In this episode, I talk about how not trusting or believing your decisions, feelings, or experiences will slowly chip away at your self-worth.

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