Why We Run From Love

Conventional dating simply doesn't work for old souls. The games, pretending, and shallow dynamics that are normalised in modern dating are completely draining for spiritually mature people who are oriented toward truth and authenticity.People who continue pursuing conventional d ...  Show more

Many men carry a deep fear of disappointing women. This fear manifests as people-pleasing behaviours: saying yes when they mean no, changing opinions to avoid conflict, apologising excessively, and avoiding difficult conversations. These actions might seem harmless, but they're r ...  Show more

Why do we have such a hard time stepping towards love and/or surrendering into it? Why do we sabotage relationships with people who actually want to love us? In this episode, I welcome back one of your favourites, Dr. Alexandra Solomon. She is an absolute relationship wizard and ...  Show more

Why do we feel a “spark” for some people and not others? What creates attraction and what is our ‘love map’? Listen in to find out why we are attracted to some people over others and how we can transform passionate love into something stable and long term.See omnystudio.com/liste ...  Show more

Are you tired of falling into the same pattern of dating charismatic but toxic partners? The allure of a confident and charming individual can be hard to resist, but it often leads to a rollercoaster ride of power plays and blame games. So, why do some people seem more prone t ...

In the 3rd installation of Benson Bootcamp, Violet covers a topic that we often avoid. Why do we love difficult people? This discussion is difficult because it often forces us to look inwardly, and see what unresolved issues we have - that are allowing us to believe that allow ...