#71: "Is he avoidant or just not that into me...

Last chance to register for the free Anxious Attachment Protest Behaviour workshopToday's episode is the fourth and final instalment of my deep dive series into fearful avoidant attachment, and this episode is one for the partners (with a focus on anxiously attached partners). I ...  Show more

When you've had a string of heartbreaks, disappointments, and bad dating experiences, remaining hopeful can be a big ask of your system. In today's Ask Steph episode, I'm sharing some thoughts on why forcing yourself to feel hopeful might not be the thing you need, and why it mig ...  Show more

Do you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners? Are you dating someone who pulls away just when things get close? When this happens, it’s easy to feel lost and wonder if the person you’re dating is avoidant or simply not that interested. In this episode, Matthew, Stephen ...  Show more

In this episode, I give a bit of insight into the mind of someone who has avoidant tendencies when they say that you’re too good for them or when they are hesitant to step up within a relationship/friendship. If you like my thoughts and insights follow me on my socials below for ...  Show more

Have you ever found yourself perpetually in relationships that feel "close, but not quite"?

Do you yearn for a meaningful connection yet struggle to make it past the initial stages of getting close to someone?

Perhaps you've been hurt before, and now ...

In this episode, John answers a listener's question after they've emailed him for advice about their current relationship. He dives into avoidant attachment styles, and gives advice on how to know if you're attachment style is to blame for feeling "suffocated" in the relationship ...  Show more