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You're allowed to tell someone they're hurting you — and if you feel stuck because you avoid conflict or keep punishing with silence, I've been there and will show you how to say it plainly so you know whether they change or reveal who they really are. 

People who threaten, belittle, or use "jokes" about violence are practicing control, and they will gaslight you into submission if you don't take their threats or "jokes" seriously. Don't reward coercion with compliance. 

HAPPY HOLIDAYS kids! Unfortunately, what comes with the holiday season can be seasonal depression. Seasonal affective disorder can be triggered from the cold, cloudy weather, shorter days and lack of sunshine. I talk about how it has affected me and how we can do our best to try ...  Show more

Have you had any "wow, this sucks" moments lately? If so, know this: it's a sign you are making progress if you feel intense emotions. Maybe they are more intense than ever before. It means at least in this moment, you haven't numbed or distracted yourself with food. Getting thro ...  Show more

Have you checked in with yourself? What is exactly the emotion that you are feeling? Is it being tired? Frustrated? Unmotivated? Let yourself fully feel it and once you do - realize that you've got the power to change your state. There are multiple ways you can change your state ...  Show more

Somehow, life becomes so dull, and you find yourself completely drained. Empty, unable to refill. Nothing makes you feel anything. You think about it, but it's tough to find an answer. It feels hopeless, as if this will continue forever, but is there really no hope?