Am I Self-Sabotaging In Relationships?

when the nonchalance era started a few years ago, being nonchalant was the highest virtue, and with that virtue, came an even higher cost: your happiness. disguised as a compliment, nonchalance became a prison dressed as freedom - a way to stay safe by staying detached, to protec ...  Show more

there’s nothing like going back to ur childhood home during the holidays and, at first, feeling nostalgic, cozy, and maybe even happy… but then a week passes and suddenly you’re spiraling and feeling ugly. this episode, we talk about how the holidays can send us into an insecurit ...  Show more

Welcome to another eye-opening episode of the XTRA Gay Podcast! In this thought-provoking installment, we dive deep into the intricate web of toxic relationships, unraveling the inexplicable allure they possess and the perilous pitfalls they conceal. Join us on this enlighte ...

Trigger warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual abuse.One-sided friendships, navigating the new world of modern dating & pulling up your aging parents on their misogynistic views. This week in the inbox: I’m at an age where a lot of my friends are in long term relatio ...  Show more

This episode was REQUESTED by one of our listeners and it’s something I have NEVER shared with you before.Y’all know I am an open book when it comes to my personal life because I want YOU to feel seen and heard and understood, I want you to know that there is possibility in your ...  Show more

NEW YEAR, NEW EPISODES! FINALLY, I have my very first guest on the Date Yourself Instead podcast, my dear incredible friend Jemma Sbeg, who hosts the Psychology of Your 20&# ...