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For years, when I signed copies of Get the Guy, I would write the same message: Never settle.I still believe we should never settle for bad behavior, mistreatment, or a relationship that doesn't make us happy. But over time, I've come to see the idea of "settling" a little differ ...  Show more

Most people spend years trying to change their lives by making dramatic, big moves. Yet even after those big moves, they find themselves facing the same frustrations, the same fears, and the same emotional patterns they thought they had left behind.Why does this happen?Well, ther ...  Show more

Have you ever wondered how to know if a guy is falling in love with you?

The biggest sign is if he tells you he loves you, but what if he's holding out on those three words as I did?

I waited five months before I first said "I love you" to J ...

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How do people fall in love? And maybe just as importantly, how do people fall out of love? Well, it's not magic. But there is a secret t ...

In this episode, we're talking about how to leave a relationship from the perspective of knowing that you need to. Break-ups are hard - no matter the circumstances - and most of the advice tends to be directed toward people who've been broken up with, rather than tho ...