Performance Anxiety & Performative Sex

What if you've been measuring your sex life all wrong? In this episode, I explore why sexual satisfaction is about so much more than orgasms, performance, or how often you have sex. Together, we'll discuss how mindfulness, self-awareness, emotional connection, and open communicat ...  Show more

What if the key to more pleasure isn't doing more… it's slowing down? In this workshop, I walk you through a practice that can help you become more present in your body, reduce stress, deepen self-awareness, and discover what truly feels good to you. We talk about why mindfulness ...  Show more

We're talking about "spectator sex". Not ACTUALLY watching yourself. But being HYPER-aware of how you look or feel to the other person present. When we're spectatoring, it’s like we're floating above ourselves. And not in a kinky, mirror above the bed kind of way. So how can we s ...  Show more

Who's the HEADMISTRESS OF PLEASURE? She studied sexuality at Stanford University AND in the jungles of Asia. Not only has she been featured in Women's Health, The Huffington Post, & Refinery29, but she's our guest on this week's episode of #Almost30! Ladies & Gentlemen, we prese ...  Show more

There’s a very real reason why feeling stressed can impact how horny you are. Stress increases your body’s most important functions like blood flow and increased heart rate. It also diminishes non-essential functions — liiiiiiike f*cking (How dare we say sex isn’t essential!) Fir ...  Show more

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What role does mindfulness and meditation play when it comes to sex? It may be the key to alleviating sexua ...