Performance Anxiety & Performative Sex

Let's be honest — for all the progress we've made, most of us still don't know how to talk about sex. We can talk about work, money, kids, literally everything else. But ask your partner what actually turns them on? Cue panic. In this live show, Dr. Emily opens up the gates for y ...  Show more

EPISODE SUMMARY Dolly Josette is a somatic sexologist and intimacy coach known as "The Pleasure Muse" who helps people reconnect with their bodies to unlock deeper pleasure. In this episode, Dolly returns to the show to explore why so many of us feel disconnected from our own sen ...  Show more

We're talking about "spectator sex". Not ACTUALLY watching yourself. But being HYPER-aware of how you look or feel to the other person present. When we're spectatoring, it’s like we're floating above ourselves. And not in a kinky, mirror above the bed kind of way. So how can we s ...  Show more

Who's the HEADMISTRESS OF PLEASURE? She studied sexuality at Stanford University AND in the jungles of Asia. Not only has she been featured in Women's Health, The Huffington Post, & Refinery29, but she's our guest on this week's episode of #Almost30! Ladies & Gentlemen, we prese ...  Show more

There’s a very real reason why feeling stressed can impact how horny you are. Stress increases your body’s most important functions like blood flow and increased heart rate. It also diminishes non-essential functions — liiiiiiike f*cking (How dare we say sex isn’t essential!) Fir ...  Show more

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What role does mindfulness and meditation play when it comes to sex? It may be the key to alleviating sexua ...