Understand Men Better: Why Men Get Defensive

Manifestation without shadow work is dangerous, because desires born from old wounds carry the same patterns into a bigger prison. Lorin describes shadow work as going into the mud and bringing light into the parts of ourselves we would rather avoid. The episode explores where ou ...  Show more

People pleasing carries a manipulative side that often goes unrecognized, even when the intent behind it is never to cause harm. At its core, people pleasing is a coping mechanism used to manage the discomfort of disagreement, boundaries, and taking up space, and it serves the eg ...  Show more

Men are facing an inner-challenge that is also affecting the marriage. For men to feel a sense of meaning, empowerment, responsibility, value, and achievement they have to show up in the eternal world a certain way. Whether this be in business, profession, managing f ...

Is your man prone to anger, blame, or criticism instead of providing the support you need?

Problematic, high-conflict dramatic men are often drawn to powerful dynamite women (like yourself!)

Some negative traits include:

Defensiveness is a common reaction to criticism, where individuals become protective and guarded, perceiving a threat to their self-esteem or sense of identity. It is a natural response when feeling attacked, but if it becomes a habitual pattern, it can damage relationships and h ...  Show more

Many women believe that if a man doesn’t know how to love her, he isn’t the one.

But what if that’s exactly why so many women end up with men who stop showing up—who pull away, disconnect, or go emotionally flat after the spark fades?