Surviving Heartbreak | Matt Monday

A viewer recently asked me: Is there a way to spot an avoidant before you fall in love with them? The truth is, early avoidant behavior can quietly trigger a sense of unworthiness, making us feel like we have to win someone over. Sometimes, what feels like “falling” for someone i ...  Show more

What if your looks aren’t the real reason you’re struggling in dating?In this episode, we unpack the belief that you’re “not attractive enough” and how that thought turns into a cycle of anxiety that keeps shifting from one insecurity to the next. We talk about why fixing your ap ...  Show more

If your heart is hurting and your confidence is MIA after a breakup or divorce, I see you. That stripped-down, shell-of-yourself feeling? It’s real. But here’s the truth that can change everything: You can take your power back after a breakup—and in this episode, I’m going to sho ...  Show more

We're ending off the season with a bang! After a heartbreak, you can be left feeling lost, because a piece of yourself is still living in the past. In today's episode we talk all things moving on, from healing the heartache, accepting your present moment and jumping into a new an ...  Show more

Last week during my Thursday Q&A on Instagram someone submitted a question “what is the point of heartbreak?” my answer to that received so much feedback that I wanted to turn it into a full episode. In today’s episode I’ll talk about what I think the point of going through a bre ...  Show more

How do you move on after a long-term relationship or marriage ends? If you are newly divorced, separated, or coming out of a long-term relationship, this week's episode will provide you with a way forward. 

Overcoming a heartbreak can be devastatingly difficult, es ...