Sexuality, Relationships & Boundaries

this week i come to the recent realization that i have control issues, which is deeply inconvenient because i genuinely thought i was one of the least controlling people. i get into the difference between trying to control other people and trying to control yourself, why fear mak ...  Show more

this week i talk about why saying no has always been so hard for me and what it’s cost me. i get into abstinence, therapy, relationships, and this pattern of changing yourself to fit other people's expectations. I talk about self-betrayal, the shame of staying in things too long, ...  Show more

On this week's episode, we dive into the complexities of friendships, boundaries, narcissism, and emotional resilience. We discuss the fine line between being supportive and being emotionally drained, the role of victimhood in interpersonal conflicts, and the challenges of dealin ...  Show more

On this week's episode, we sit down to discuss the aftermath of the Instagram suspension and the complexities of female friendships. We explore why they can sometimes be challenging, touching on societal pressures, the victimhood narrative, and the importance of accountability. T ...  Show more

Trigger warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual abuse.One-sided friendships, navigating the new world of modern dating & pulling up your aging parents on their misogynistic views. This week in the inbox: I’m at an age where a lot of my friends are in long term relatio ...  Show more

In this episode, we explore how labels control our identity and freedom. We talk about what it means to be queer, why we might choose to break away from labels, and if we're willing to explore our sexuality. Whether you're questioning your sexuality or feel comfortable in it, thi ...  Show more