Is This Survivor's Guilt?

Conflict is not toxic or immoral. In fact, it's generative and the lifeblood of our relationships. It isn't something to avoid. It matters, and it can even bring us closer together. Priya Parker, author of The Art of Fighting, joins Esther to dig into how conflict can be a produc ...  Show more

A married couple arrives at Esther’s office hoping to recover from a devastating rupture with his mother after the birth of their first child. But immediately their session reveals a longer, more complex history of betrayal within their relationship and within his larger family s ...  Show more

On today’s episode, we hear about: · A man struggling with the guilt of keeping his kids away from their mother · A husband hoping to pick up his hobbies again after his wife’s surgery · A man trying to decide if he should call off his engagement Next Steps: 📞 Ask John a questio ...  Show more

Send a text Join us as we share our SURVIVOR GUILT as second-generation migrants grappling with the messy and complex issues around being the ones who ‘made it out’. In this episode, we explore issues around escaping war, sending money back home, recognising our privilege and sha ...  Show more

On this episode, we hear about: -       A woman wondering if she’s to blame for her ex’s depression -       A father unsure how to connect with his oldest daughter -       A recovering alcoholic still struggling with the consequences of his actions   Offers From Today's Sponsors ...  Show more

Sven helps two women in very different circumstances find their authentic voices. Jess is unhappy and stuck, and feels like "a small human." Sven connects this feeling to her childhood, living in constant fear of an explosive father. Faith feels she can't help h ...