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SETTLE OR STAY SINGLE? Do you need them or do you want them? Loneliness can make anyone look like an option. But settling to avoid being alone can leave you feeling even more alone inside the relationship. Here’s how to know the difference between being too selective and settling ...  Show more

Feeling helpless watching your younger partner make mistakes? Feeling controlled by your older partner’s insistence on guiding you? The Mentor-Pupil trap can quietly undermine an age gap relationship. Here’s how both partners can learn from each other, maintain their independence ...  Show more

Can you be addicted to a person? If romantic relationships turn to obsession, especially after they're over, it's time to heal trauma bonds that "hook" you into people who are selfish, manipulative, and who "blow hot and cold." In this podcast, I respond to a letter ...

If you want to know how to no be clingy, you might fall in love with the idea that your boyfriend or husband is even more clingy than you. You can make this fantasy a reality by making him obsessed with you: http://gethimkeephim.com/obsession   And if you are ready to share your e ...  Show more

This is for anyone who obsesses about the thoughts and feelings of others, clinging, feeling anxious and being unable to be yourself. This is targeted at those who are in bad relationship loops but it will also help if this is something that comes up in familial relationships. I ...  Show more

Have you ever found yourself obsessing, spiraling, and rushing your relationships? Maybe you've spent way to much time overanalyzing his texts, stalking his social media, or giving a guy way to much mental real estate. In today's episode, I'm going to help you reclaim your inner ...  Show more