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I hear this all the time: “Matthew, they’re wonderful but they won’t let me in. The conversations stay shallow. They deflect when things get real. And no matter how safe I try to make it, they just . . . won’t go there.” Sound familiar?Here’s the thing: I’ve been on both sides of ...  Show more

We often talk about how the right partner will elevate your best and soothe your worst. But what if you secretly feel like your best isn’t good enough . . . or that your worst will be “too much“ for someone? When we carry that fear, we tend to overcorrect. We try to impress. We h ...  Show more

This is Breakup Recovery's 100th episode where I asked listeners to send in the questions that they wanted me to cover in this special episode. I shared my insights, tips and strategies on a number of topics ranging from 'how do you stop loving some one so much?', 'how do I move ...  Show more

Should you date someone who recently got out of a relationship?  If not, how long should you wait to make sure they're emotionally available?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses how to navigate through a situation where someone is not yet over their ex.

One of the most asked questions when someone has been broken up with is, "When will my ex contact me?" There are 2 times when you're most likely to hear from your ex. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what those 2 times are so that you'll be ready and won't be caug ...

One of the most asked questions when someone wants to get their ex back is if their ex will forget about them if they don't contact them after the breakup.  In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why it's actually your ex who is going to be wondering if you ...