122. You Are Not Responsible for Everyone Else's Feelings! Here's How to Stop

122. You Are Not Responsible for Everyone Els...

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261. "I Can Survive Being Disliked" (And So Can You): The Good Girl Conditioning Episode

In this episode, Alissa revists the topic of good girl conditioning and why so many highly sensitive women build an entire identity around being the responsible one, the kind one, the person who never rocks the boat. She looks at what happens when agreeableness stops being a natu ...  Show more

260. Am I Overreacting, or Do I Actually Need a Boundary? An HSP Guide to Trusting Your Own Reaction

In this episode, Alissa tackles a question she hears constantly. "How do you know if you're actually allowed to be upset, or if you're just being too sensitive?" If you've ever replayed a conversation for days, questioned your own reaction, or wondered if you made something out o ...  Show more

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