106. Ask Yourself the Right Questions

What is the C-word? In my work, there's one C-word that carries a lot of weight: closure. In this episode, I talk about what closure actually means, why we can end up making our sense of peace dependent on things we cannot control, and how our own thinking shapes whether or not w ...  Show more

If you're spending hours texting your affair partner every day, but you know it's making your life harder, why are you still doing it? It's completely reasonable to enjoy texting with your affair partner. It can be exciting, entertaining, and a reliable source of pleasure. But if ...  Show more

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: should I leave my marriage? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and ...  Show more

Are you tired of trying to make things work with your partner, or feel they are not as invested as you are?

Do you feel like you've grown apart in your relationship or feel more like roommates?

Or do you wish you had black-and-white ...

Was your marriage a MISTAKE? Today we’re diving into a question I hear a lot: "Did I marry the wrong person?" If your relationship feels hard and you're starting to wonder if you made the right choice, you’re in the right place. We’ll tackle four essential areas to help you gain ...  Show more

Should you walk away from a good relationship that’s missing the love you deserve? Is it time to stop waiting for answers from someone who just won’t give you a straight one? And how do you cope with the overwhelming urge to try to win someone back? This week, Sarah’s diving into ...  Show more