3:11 Attachment Instincts with Gabor Mate, MD

3:11 Attachment Instincts with Gabor Mate, MD

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4:8  ​Being Present with Disappointment: an IFS Perspective

In this episode, Susan explores what happens when our children are disappointed, upset, or frustrated — and why our instinct to fix, minimize, or rescue them from that feeling often does more harm than good. Using the example of a child upset about a not getting to wear a favorit ...  Show more

4:7 After the Anger: An IFS Look at Repair

In this episode, Susan explores what happens after Lawyer or Dictator mode has taken over and you've lost your cool. She explains why the goal isn't to stay serene all the time, and why genuine repair, done well, teaches a child that relationships can survive rupture. Susan break ...  Show more

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