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27 Lessons I Have Learned By 27

#268. As per annual tradition, Allana is back with her lessons-learned episode for her birthday. We're just going to ignore the fact that we're now in our LATE 20s and rather focus on having more lessons to share. In this episode, Allana shares 27 lessons that have shaped how she ...  Show more

JULY FAVOURITES: Sexy & Unsexy Summer Must-Haves

#267. As July comes to a close, it only seems fitting to share what Allana has been loving this summer. The theme this month? The sexy AND unsexy essentials that have helped her feel and look like her best in all the ways. Browse and shop everything she mentions in the episode be ...  Show more

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