The Myth of Resilience (Soraya Chemaly)

The Myth of Resilience (Soraya Chemaly)

Up next

How to Feel Like We Matter? (Jennifer B. Wallace)

Journalist and bestselling author Jennifer B. Wallace shares the key ingredients to feeling like you matter, and to making others feel like they matter, too. She covers my favorite stories and stats from her new book Mattering, along with the practical tools, habits, and practice ...  Show more

Why We Need to Use Spiral Dynamics Now (Monthly Solo)

In this month’s solo episode, I’m sharing more about the model of developmental psychology that I’m finding incredibly useful right now: Spiral Dynamics. As a framework, I think it can help us understand our world and culture better—and it can guide us in the best, and most effec ...  Show more

Recommended Episodes

EP 117: Rethinking Resilience: Moving from Bouncing Back to Relational Resilience with Soraya Chemaly
The Unburdened Leader

When you think about resilience, what comes to mind?


Our culture loves narratives about triumphing over hardship. And overcoming pain, heartbreak, and even abuse can make us stronger.


However, uplifting “overcoming” too often comes at the expe ...

  Show more

#222: Stop Being a “Good Girl” with Elise Loehen
Mary's Cup of Tea: the Self Love Podcast for Women

My whole life I have strived to be a “good girl.” But after this conversation with Elise Loehnen, I no longer want to be.

You will learn...

<ul> <li>the history behind the 7 deadly sins and how they’ve been weaponized by the patriarchy</li> <li>who Mary Magdalene re ...  Show more

Anti-Diet vs. Clean Eating: Why Both Extremes Fail Us (and Where to Go From Here)
Fuel Her Awesome- Food Freedom, Intuitive Eating, Empowered Eating, Overcoming Obsession With Weight Loss, Strength Training

In today’s culture, women are pulled toward extremes with food—swinging between anti-diet messages and “clean” or “holy” eating expectations. But what if there’s a different way? Empowered Eating offers a bridge between the extremes, inviting us into the nuanced, intentional m ...

  Show more

The Resilience Myth with Soraya Chemaly
Thanks For Asking

In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack! - Years ago, when Nora was in the worst phase of her life (dead husband, dead dad, lost pregnancy) she heard a lot of people describe her as resilient. Those people meant it a ...  Show more