Ep 145: Why we lie in relationships

Ep 145: Why we lie in relationships

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Ep 191: How To Heal Wounds At The Root (And Become Secure In Relationships)

Send us a textAn unprocessed wound shows up as control, people-pleasing, blaming or shut-down in relationship situations. It's the spiralling in hurt when you think you don't matter to them. The doubting yourself and your worth. Or what keeps you from letting someone in.The key t ...  Show more

Ep 190: Should Love Feel Safe? (And Is Attraction Bad..?)

Send us a textThere’s a lot of dating advice out there saying the “right” love should feel calm, steady, and like home. No butterflies. No activation. No intensity. Just safety.But love is not meant to keep you comfortable. Love is disruptive. It opens the rooms inside of you tha ...  Show more

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