Ep 145: Why we lie in relationships

Send a textSecure attachment isn’t the absence of reactions. It’s the capacity to move between closeness and space without spiraling in survival mode. It’s the moment when something that once felt life-threatening simply becomes… workable.In this episode, I walk through the five ...  Show more

Send a textThis week in the attachment series, I sit down with Jessica to explore the anxious strategy—what’s really happening beneath the urge to reach, pursue, obsess, and “make it safe” when someone feels distant. Jessica describes the somatic reality of anxious attachment: th ...  Show more

In this episode, I dive into the real work of healing emotional triggers, especially when they show up in our relationships. I walk you through how to find the root emotion behind your reactions, why childhood experiences still impact us today, and why true healing h ...

You can’t rush healing, and you can’t fake peace. In this episode, we dive into the importance of feeling your emotions fully—without judgment, shame, or the need to “get over it” quickly. Healing begins the moment you allow yourself to feel what you’ve been avoiding. Whether it’ ...  Show more

Dating someone with an avoidant attachment style can leave you second-guessing yourself, waiting for scraps of connection, and telling yourself stories that keep you in pain. I’ve been there, and I know how easy it is to cling to beliefs that feel comforting in the moment but ult ...  Show more

If you’ve ever found yourself constantly doing, fixing, or over-functioning in your relationships or business, this episode will help you understand the hidden cost of living in survival mode—and how to reclaim the soft, grounded strength of your feminine power.I share vulnerable ...  Show more