What If Their Thoughts About You Don't Matter?

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The Quiet Cost of Conditional Worth

Most people don’t walk around thinking, “My worth is conditional.” They just feel the tension when things aren’t going well—and the relief when they are. This episode sits with that tension. The quiet pressure to perform, to keep up, to prove something—often without realizing tha ...  Show more

Why Knowing How to Speak Up Isn’t Enough

Join Dr. Aziz live for a 3-day VIRTUAL event: Not Nice LIVE > Go here for details and tickets. Most people don’t struggle to speak up because they lack communication skills. They struggle because crossing that line feels dangerous. In this episode, Dr. Aziz Gazipura explores why ...  Show more

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