What is a "situationship"?

Have you ever looked back at the way you acted in a relationship and thought… oh my god, was I the toxic one?In this throwback episode, I’m sharing one of the most vulnerable stories I’ve ever told on the podcast: the situationship that exposed some of my deepest patterns around ...  Show more

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit alyssaaazander.substack.comWhat do you do when you can't tell if you're being triggered... or if something actually isn't working for you?In this members-only AMA, we're talking about unmet needs, resentment, boundarie ...  Show more

Ever been stuck in a situationship, that in-between space where you're more than purely casual but not truly committed? In today's episode, we're unboxing this modern dating conundrum.

We're peeling back the layers of why we find ourselves in thes ...

Do you end up in relationships that seem to go nowhere, even when you've been together for months or years? Relationships that make you anxious and give you this nagging feeling that you're in limbo? Well, you might be in a situationship! But you deserve bette ...

What is a situationship? In a situationship, the other person is getting ALL of the benefits of a relationship, without actually having to commit to put in the work of a relationship. In this episode, we talk more about what a situationship is, how it differs from friends with be ...  Show more

In today's episode, we’re exploring the common patterns and beliefs that lead people into situationships — those ambiguous, frustrating "almost-relationships" that never quite become something more. 

If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a situationshi ...