BLACK CAT- GOLDEN RETRIEVER & ATTACHMENT STYL...

Many anxious and secure attached persons have dated avoidant attached persons who seemed really ready for a long term committed relationships until.... things got heavy. Many were left confused at their behaviours as some avoidant back-peddled, withdrew, seem to gaslight or altog ...  عرض المزيد

Many of us believe that holding an avoidant accountable means talking to them like they are an idiot and we are their parent. How many of us liked it when our parents, or anyone in authority held us accountable? No one! We revelled and worse, you ignore and avoided as much as we ...  عرض المزيد

Jillian unpacks the viral "Black Cat and Golden Retriever" dating theory that has taken over social media. She explores its heteronormative roots, its misguided take on relationship dynamics, and why it sets people up for failure. She dissects the archetypes of the aloof femme fa ...  عرض المزيد

In this episode I sit down with Stephanie Rigg to talk about attachment and how our attachment styles can affect how we show up in our relationships.

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Loneliness can feel heavy, but it can also open the door to self-discovery. Dora reflects on how moments of solitude can deepen our understanding of ourselves and create space for genuine connection. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices 

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3587: Shawna Scafe explores how "identity clutter," the physical and emotional baggage tied to who we think we should be, p ...  عرض المزيد