#150: A Hard Truth About Setting Boundaries

In this Ask Steph episode, I respond to a listener question about the fine line between personal growth and the endless pursuit of self-improvement.While healing, reflection, and growth are powerful tools, they can sometimes become another way we reinforce the belief that somethi ...  Show more

Modern dating can be tough. Between apps, ghosting, and the uncertainty that often comes with meeting strangers outside our social circles, the whole process can be seriously activating — and all the more so for those with anxious attachment patterns.In this episode, I share thre ...  Show more

In this episode we’re diving into why boundaries are one of the most powerful ways to love yourself and others.Setting boundaries isn’t about keeping people out—it’s about creating a space where respect, trust, and genuine connection can thrive. You’ll learn how to recognize when ...  Show more

Abstinence from pornography and lust hits is the foundation of a solid recovery. Creating and maintaining boundaries is the main way to achieve that abstinence. This episode answers questions like "What are boundaries?", "Why are boundaries important?", "What does a good boundary ...  Show more

This is part I of a 2-episode series on setting boundaries. In this episode, Amina and I discuss what boundaries are, how to define your own boundaries, communicate them and maintain them, as well as techniques on how to say "no" and how to clearly communicate your n ...

Get 45% off the Magic Mind bundle with with my link: https://www.magicmind.com/ERICJAN00:00:00 Stand Up For Yourself, Set Boundaries, & Stop Pleasing Others00:03:32 The Terrible Tale of the “Gunnysack”00:07:26 Try a Hypothetical00:10:54 Use the “Five Whys” technique Stand Up For ...  Show more