Empowering Emotional Triggers

The word motivation is back in style, and just as many people are busy tearing it down. Maybe you've felt that pull yourself, fired up one week and flat on the couch the next. Today I want to settle the argument. Motivation matters, but it's not the whole story. There's a tiny wo ...  Show more

Ever lie awake at three in the morning asking when it's all going to work out? When will life finally go your way? We all land there sometimes, even the most upbeat among us. Today I'm sharing raw notes from a deep call with my inner circle. No script, no polish — just the real s ...  Show more

The APP has arrived! https://studio.com/apps/rebecca

If you like the podcast, you will love the Everyday Calm app. It is a daily program that teaches simple skills t ...

The APP has arrived! https://studio.com/apps/rebecca

If you like the podcast, you will love the Everyday Calm app. It is a daily program that teaches simple skills t ...

This is for breaking out of cycles caused by vulnerability and anxiety – whether that’s your own mind or a common interaction with a loved one. What I am talking about are moments when you take another person’s feelings, personally. When we get triggered by their emotional respon ...  Show more

A Disorganized Attachment style is a trauma wound that can drive you to LONG for love and then push it away again and again, every time you feel irritated, or vulnerable, or disappointed. Childhood trauma is almost always the cause of this, and THAT wasn’t your fault. But when ...