Episode 324: How To Get What You Want In Bed

Why do some people need emotional connection to feel desire, while others are more responsive to novelty, touch, or fantasy? And why can the exact same sexual experience feel exciting one day and flat the next? In this episode, we explore the five dimensions of desire and how und ...  Show more

A lot of people think that if you’re attracted to someone, arousal should just naturally happen. But it’s not that simple. In this episode, we explore the science of sexual arousal, the many pathways through which desire can emerge, and how stress, trauma, burnout, and major life ...  Show more

Initiating sex, dry spells, and mismatched libidos: the Hotline Calls are open, and your sex questions are answered! Today’s sexual concerns are especially relatable: I’m willing to bet you’ve experienced one of these yourself. Let’s start with orgasms. When you can only get off ...  Show more

Today's Hot Topic conversation finally tackles a common theme among our Shandies' relationship questions over the last 2 years: What to do when one partner wants to get frisky way more than the other? Shan Boodram, our esteemed expert joining us today, could not be more qualified ...  Show more

Dr. Ava Cadell, sexologist and author of Neuroloveology, gives us 'tips' on keeping your sex life hot by teaching you about your sexual personality and what gets you feeling so sexy. Here's what to look forward to in this episode:

Let’s talk about SEX!

If you’ve followed me for a while, you’ll know I don’t shy away from many topics, including anything and everything to talk about sex.

If you don't want to hear about all things sex, this one is not for you. But if you’re interested and wa ...