Episode 326: Sex Tips For Women

People often think successful non-monogamy comes down to communication, boundaries, and relationship agreements. But underneath those conversations are deeper psychological dynamics involving attachment, emotional safety, and nervous system regulation. In today’s episode, we’re e ...  Show more

Most people say they want deeper relationships and more meaningful connection, yet many conversations stay stuck at the surface level. We talk about work, schedules, the weather, or whatever else feels safe. So why is it so hard to move beyond small talk? In this episode, we’re e ...  Show more

Black folks are often left out of research studies. Queer people are often left out of research studies. Women are often left out of research studies. So if you're a Black queer woman, there's hardly any research about your specific needs, struggles, and pleasure -- and that's wh ...  Show more

This episode really has it all - orgasms, porn, masturbation and even Martha Stewart! Mal and her friend Bridget talk about female pleasure, addressing the social stigmas and shame that women are taught, and the benefits to this form of self-care. The episode also explores bisexu ...  Show more

Let’s talk about SEX!

If you’ve followed me for a while, you’ll know I don’t shy away from many topics, including anything and everything to talk about sex.

If you don't want to hear about all things sex, this one is not for you. But if you’re interested and wa ...

Ready to have better sex? Start here. This season on Sex Ed with DB, we're diving into what your high school health class definitely didn't teach you: how to get more pleasure. Whether you're trying to orgasm with a partner, explore your kinks, or just feel more confident in your ...  Show more