Therapy and Gaslighting Yourself

In this episode, Dr. K explains why lowering your expectations is the key to mental peace, while emphasizing that you should never settle by lowering your standards. He breaks down the neuroscience of "prediction errors" and reveals why the gap between what you expect and what yo ...  Show more

In this episode, Dr. K explores the science of connection and the "meta" of physical intimacy, answering a wide range of community questions about sex, fetishes, and the biology of attraction. He breaks down how the brain gets wired for specific preferences and explains why a ful ...  Show more

Have you ever wondered why so many mental health treatments seem to scratch the surface but don’t quite reach the root of what’s going on? For those who resonate with mental health disorder labels, the journey often begins and ends with skills-based therapies ...

This week, we’re getting real about what therapy is, what it isn’t, and why some people swear by it while others side-eye it. We sit down with Abdullah Alkhulaifah—a psychologist, brain health advocate, and educator—to break down the cultural stigma around mental health, how to a ...  Show more

The Internet is packed with anxiety and mental health advice, but not all of it is useful or helpful. Some of it can be harmful. This week I'm joined by Emma McAdam, the therapist behind the Therapy in a Nutshell YouTube channel, to dissect the often misleading and sometimes dang ...  Show more

Maybe you’ve heard the term “gaslighting” thrown around, but what does it actually mean?In this episode of Take Out Therapy, we’re diving deep to help you understand gaslighting—what it really is, how to spot it, and what you can do to take back your power. It’s time to ditch the ...  Show more