The blessing of getting dumped on your birthd...

This week, I’m closing the chapter on Brutally Anna by talking about mile 20—of the New York City Marathon, yes, but also of life. I ran that race back in 2017, and the thing about a marathon is you always know how far you have left. In life, you don’t. And this year felt like mi ...  Show more

In today’s episode, I’m talking about why I think the word “soulmate” is kind of bullshit—not because love isn’t real, but because we use that word to trap ourselves in relationships that aren’t actually right for us. I share how I once assigned the title “soulmate” to practicall ...  Show more

EP38: It’s the month of love, so we welcome OG relationship podcast host Lindsey Metselaar! Lindsey is the host of the podcast; We Met at Acme. This podcast is a STAPLE in the dating world. I love her take on relationships. We don’t always see eye to eye on relationship topics, w ...  Show more

Gather 'round as podcast host and dating expert and coach Lindsey Metselaar joins the circle! Lindsey helps me answer all of your dating questions: what to do about long distance, what happens when you start developing a new crush, taking a break, giving ultimatums, finding love, ...  Show more

Victoria is sitting down with Lindsey Metselaar host of the successful We Met at Acme podcast with over 200k followers across social media. Her podcast, We Met At Acme delves into sex, relationships and vulnerability, with some hilarious anecdotes along the way. This ultimate dee ...  Show more

Celebrating because Mercury Retrograde has ended (thank goodness!) AND the amazing Lindsey Metselaar is joining me for Office Hours. We touch a lot on motherhood and the importance of keeping your identity after giving birth, ditching the dating apps, and going no-contact afte ...